I’m rarely present and in the moment (are any of us?)

Sometimes you have to be at the right place in your life to properly hear advice. It’s why people read books a second and third time. You get something different each time, because you’re in a different place in your life. It’s why someone can give you advice many times, over many years – and then one time it just clicks and you immediately make a change.

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It’s a beautiful thing, when you start to like the person you’re becoming

If you know me or my writing, you’ll know that I struggle with confidence. It’s been like this for as long as I can remember.

There’s often some type of self doubt, anxiety, or imposter syndrome hovering around me. Even when I’m at my highest point, I feel a black cloud in the background. I can be in the zone and feeling super capable one minute – only to feel like a complete fraud the next.

Recently a switch flipped in me, and I’ve been able to tackle these issues like I’ve never been able to before.

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How to build unbreakable consistency

I spent at least fifteen years chasing specific goals and perfection . I knew in my heart that it was wrong and making me miserable, but I still kept doing it.

Over the last eighteen months, I’ve begun to think about things completely differently. I built a whole new mentality and mindset. This has helped me transform myself and achieve more than I could possibly imagine.

As I reflect on how I’ve changed, there are five things that stand out as making the difference.

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